I cannot believe it but I got caught up in BLACK FRIDAY shopping. I mean I really can’t believe it.
I have to admit it…it was fun!
Let me share my shame.
I was enjoying a delightful and delicious Thanksgiving meal with family in Southern Maryland. We do this every year and it is one of our favorite things. So much so, although we were not due there until 2:30, Mirror Image wanted to leave early enough to arrive at 1:30. That girl, she is an awesome eater.
Between eating and chatting, I perused the newspaper advertisements that both my mom and Auntie brought. Sure there were a couple of interesting things but nothing I couldn’t live without. Although I am not gonna lie, I wanted some of those copper pots everyone and their mother are hawking these days.
So after more eating and family gossip, we packed up the car with leftovers (very important) and turned in the direction of home. Conveniently, there is a shopping mall on the way home and we stop every year “just to look” at the Black Friday deals. I fully expected this to be like last year where we came, we saw and we left empty handed. That was the plan.
The first thing I noticed was that it was almost 7pm and while there were shoppers, there were no crazy crowds. The next thing I saw was my favorite game from childhood, SIMON, but souped up for the current generation. I had to have it. Once I decided on that first item, others seemed to just throw themselves into my arms:
- 2 karaoke microphones (one for me, one for the office holiday party)
- 1 Google Chromecast (my room)
- 1 Roku Express (Mirror Image’s room)
- 1 Google Home Assistant Mini
- 1 Decorative pillow (Christmas present for my aunt)
- Clothes (Mirror Image Christmas presents)
The monetary hit? $162. I spent $162 on items I didn’t plan on purchasing! Well it didn’t stop there. I got up the next day (the actual Friday in Black Friday shopping) and while running errands, decided to go back to the store and get the special make up brushes Mirror Image had asked for as a surprise present. Well the surprise was on me when I bought 2 sets (because I really needed one, too), and more clothes for her.
The price to play the Black Friday game? Another $60.
So just over a couple hundred in 2 days for shopping, really impulse shopping. For some, this wouldn’t seem too bad. For me, I felt almost out of control. Shiny items hypnotized me (seriously, the karaoke microphone was rose gold in color), my childhood called to me in pretty flashes of color with the Simon game and my daughter, as lovely as she is, right by my side encouraging every purchase – wanting EVERY THING. I was toast.
Ahh but for grace (and a much needed grace period), I am coming out of the shopping after-glow and have put many of the items in the bag to return.
Gone karaoke microphone! I will keep one for the party gift swap.
Gone make up brush set! Mirror Image gets to keep hers and I wouldn’t have it any other way.
Gone Google Home Assistant and Chromecast – I watch too much television anyway. (Hahaha, just kidding, there is no such thing as too much tv).
I expect to get back around $75. Good thing too because today is Cyber Monday and I saw something I just have to have…
How were your Turkey shopping days?